A lot of people will be happy to tell you what you should and shouldn't do in life.

A wedding dress is the most expensive dress most women ever buy. And they typically only ever wear it once.

And so it was with great delight to hear a woman tell me about her tradition of wearing her wedding dress out to eat with her husband every year on their anniversary. So cool.

What a treat for the other diners, especially married ones, who are gifted with the opportunity to reflect on the happy memories from their own wedding day. And for the couples going through a rough spot in their relationship, maybe it even offers some perspective and incentive to smooth things out and steer things in the right direction.

The tuxedo I wore on my wedding day was a rental, but if it were still in my possession I’d need a giant shoehorn to put it on and the Jaws of Life to take it off. So kudos to her for being able to still show it off.

But even bigger kudos for being brave enough to break a rule that certainly doesn’t exist.

This soft pillow is an excellent addition that gives character to any space. It comes with a soft polyester insert that will retain its shape after many uses, and the pillow case can be easily machine washed. And it's completely cut, sewn and printed in the USA.

• 18x18”
• machine washable cover
• concealed zipper
• printed on both sides
• pillowcase cover: 80% polyester, 20% fleece
• pillowcase insert: 100% polyester